Feb 5I’ve Been Here BeforeThis is not a new place for me. The loneliness that washes over me like a salty, warm tide. It’s kind of pleasant, for a little while. I like the quiet of it. A muffled, lukewarm embrace. …Introvert2 min read
Jan 8Why do we send flowers when someone dies?Why do we send flowers when someone dies? Of the many intricacies of life I just don’t get, I would like to rant about sending flowers when someone dies. I have never been a person who enjoys receiving flowers. Because they are lush and pretty, they give a momentary rush…Grief4 min read
Aug 29, 2021Dating Lots of People at Once is GeniusI didn’t date until I was 20. The definition of a “late bloomer”, I truly thought as a teenager that no man would ever want to be with or marry me. Thinking back, I don’t know exactly why I condemned myself so harshly. A lifelong hardcore introvert, I actually assumed…Dating9 min read
Aug 28, 2021Tempering the OverwhelmI was thinking today that my brain would be far more comfortable existing in the world of 100 years ago. I like calm. I enjoy things slow. I don’t need life to be easy, but I do require a certain order to my day, or I feel untethered and uneasy. …Anxiety6 min read
Aug 11, 2021Letter To My Daughter Going Off To CollegeThis letter is completely cliche, but I find myself compelled to create it for you. I wanted to impart some unsolicited advice that I hope you’ll consider, or perhaps file away until the occasion comes up that you think, “Oh, yeah — that’s something that Liz mentioned…” I have a…College8 min read
Jul 22, 2021Making HayYou never think much about something like what it takes to grow, cut, dry, bale, and collect hay for your farm animals until you are the one doing the work. Isn’t that the way it is with most things in life? As a kid, I didn’t think much about the…Farming5 min read
Jun 18, 2021How to know it’s overYears can be wasted waiting for badly-behaving spouses to turn over a new leaf and decide to be good ones. I was a model wife in my “starter marriage”, as I like to call my first attempt at matrimony. Ten years ago tomorrow is the anniversary of that much-anticipated wedding…Marriage6 min read